"give me back the Daytons I put on....
The tinted windows I paid for.....
The money I put into the engine
and the brakes!" - Baby Boy
Love is a crazy thing. Especially when you know it's over. What is the right way to tell someone you've been loving that the end is here. Essentially you don't want to sound cliche by saying " Let's be friends" even though that sentiment might very well be the most geniune. Think about it. Wouldn't you rather be slapped in the face than your honey tell you they're ready to drive you curbside to the "Friend Zone." But what if the shoe were on the other foot? What if you were the one who had to break it off? I've been on both sides of the fence and neither one is easier than the other. Some things just have to be done.
Love is a crazy thing. I always like to reference my relationship box. As explained in previous posts, it is an imaginary box that is filled with real-life B/S that I've chosen to forgive for the sake of the relationship. Eventually this box gets filled to the top. Some choose to disregard the maximum capacity limitations you've orginally set upon the box and hit reset. I don't suggest you do that too often or there is no point to the box at all however; I am not here to judge. If there were a way for you to see what's actually in this box I'd probably be embarassed. Good thing Voni.Isnt.Perfect is a JUDGE FREE-Zone
