Twitter Rants & Raves

I've been gone for a minute now I'm back on the jumpoff"- Lil Kim

There has been a lot going on in my life for the past few weeks. October aka Libra Love season is one of my busiest months next to Christmas!   I don't have many close friends but its seems as though the ones that I do have are ALL born in October.  *please, I say this with the utmost Libra Love* 

Now for the MEAT of this post entitled: Twitter Rants & Raves...

The other day I tweeted "Calling your live-in girlfriend your SITUATION is disrespectful."  PERIOD.  I struggle to understand why Men who are in "committed" relationships venture out to engage other women.  Some of these women are unsuspecting while others knowingly creep with involved men. <----but that is another issue to be discussed later.  What is the point?  Shouldn't you just stay single. Being single means you can play the field honestly without intentionally breaking someones heart in the future.  Makes sense to me. Just like no sin is more wrong than the other, disrespect is just disrespect all the way around.  But to be categorized as "MY SITUATION" its just annoying to me. (thank you Jersey Shore for giving birth to that phrase!)  Don't ride the lines.  You either have a girlfriend or you don't.  

A good male friend of mine suggested I read The Conversation by Hill Harper.  I haven't even gotten to the middle of the book and I am so enlightened!

Women as a species are very intuitive. In relationships, I believe we can basically tell when things aren't going as we've planned.  I will go even further and say that we even know in our hearts when the relationship has gone south.  We are creatures of habits; therefore if in the beginning of the relationship he comes home at 6:00pm every day and you notice that has changed without an honest excuse, you already know what it is.   If your birthday comes along and he doesn't give you so much as a card.....

The same goes for men. They too know when the relationship is over. Most of the time both parties are holding on to something that is no longer there- for convenience.   In the end, this is hurtful to everyone.   A lot of Hill's findings about the difference between men and women I notice are extremely truthful.   I especially can attest to the fact that men do not break up with their women.   Instead they tend to sabotage the relationship to the point she no longer wants to stay.  Cheating, lying..deception.  MAN UP!!! 
I know now is not the time to quote Fantasia but it fits. "If you don't want me... then don't talk to me... Free Yourself."



*Voni V.I.P*